How can we be safe in a group when the nature of ourselves seem anything but that?
If we allow room for others to grow, as we do every day, in every action, would that help us with our objective of group safety? I think being mindful that other people can exist and help and love you in all of your imperfections is key. To be self-aware and aware of others is to be aware of the Global Community of people set on being resilient in the midst of tons of heartache, shame, and turmoil over what it means to be human.
Remember as you’re on the journey that you can be your own best friend, too. That is one way to promote internal safety.